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Time for ourselves
- 30/06/2010
- Categorized in: Pause For Thought
It’s occasionally important to step back and take a look at what we’re doing. In some ways we’ve been blessed with the situation where we don’t even have a vague feeling that we’ve got this all under control, so we have to take a look fairly frequently.
A little while back we had the opportunity come our way to attend the affili@sydney conference, and being from the west coast of Australia, it’s a major investment of cash and time. If you’ve been following the blog, you’ll know that we aren’t overly resourced with either.
So the question was fairly simple. Can’t afford the flights, registration, hotels and meals. Can’t afford the days away from the office. Do we think we should go? The answer was a resounding HELL YEAH! This business is about doing the things we should do, and it aims to free us from the constant slavery we have experienced in both time and money. Accepting that there are limitations, but that being better at what we do is going to free us from those limits, we made the hard choice that only one of us would go. Graeme is deeper into the business at present so it was obvious that he would learn faster and more.
Dave is pretty good at shaking hands, talking to people, seeing opportunity, finding the win/ win, so it would have been cool to have him along as well, but there’s still the resources thing. Mark at this point didn’t even exist, so that wasn’t an issue.
First thing that was decided was that Graeme would not only go, but would make it as useful for himself as a real person as he could. We are clearly part of this business, but we are both people and there’s more to life than the internet and the company. So an extra day, an extra ticket, and a bonus at family level were factored in.
But back to South West eCommerce... how did it all pan out? I’m sitting a metre away from Graeme most days, and I can say that a moment to develop him is something we deserve to do more often. He returned with more bounce, more ideas, more energy, and a commitment to doing something that is now more real than it has been before.
That extra verve is sure to make us more money, and accelerate the process of getting to profitability, but there’s more to it than that.
The bottom line for today is that we gained significantly by stopping for a short while and doing something to develop ourselves. Business is certainly business and we haven’t lost sight of the cash imperative, but the real reason we’re here is to live great lives. Scripture says if you’re a slave and you can, you should buy your own freedom. We’ll get clear if we determine to be the best people we can be.
We don’t want to be free to have a lot of cash, we want to be free to bring our kids up right. To love the people we meet in the street. To see people in another street and love THEM. To choose to only do things and buy things if there is some benefit to the world in doing it. Focusing on ourselves just for a few days helped. We’re back at work now, but the pattern is set. The time we take away from the business will make us better people and the upshot of that is success in all sorts of ways.
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Glad to hear Graeme attending the conference was worthwhile! Sometimes it's hard to measure the return on investment of attending "continuing education" or networking type conferences.
I wasn't too familiar with the affili@sydney conference since I live in the States, but a little poking around in Google revealed got me up to speed: "Affili@syd is one of Australia’s biggest Affiliate Marketing conferences and as the name suggests, it is held in Sydney ... The idea behind Affili@syd was to bring together Industry experts, Advertisers and Affiliate Marketers and provide a forum to talk about trends identified in the past 12 months and where the new market trends are being seen.
No matter how much one knows in their area of expertise, there's always room to learn more. Gaining the perspectives of other enthused professionals in one's field can be invaluable and give your company an edge over competitors. Hopefully soon you guys will get to the point where all three of you guys can afford to attend! Until then, maybe the lucky designated traveler can bring digital recorder and record some of the seminars? And i'm not sure it's accurate to say this sort of thing is really "time away from the business" or "stopping." Continued learning and networking the old fashioned way at conferences and conventions are time-honored business activities that even the tax man recognizes!
Michael, you're right on. The conference paid it's way many times and we feel very happy about what we got from it. It is a change of pace and certainly feels like a break, but you're also right that this self development process is part of making the business work.
What we didn't tell you is that school holidays have come and each of us is finding time to go shopping with our daughters, or surfing with our sons, or bike riding with our nephews. It's all part of the mix for us, but mostly we started the blog to tell you about the business stuff.
I enjoyed your thoughts about freedom, leisure and work. G.K. Chesterton describes the concept of leisure as having three possibilities: Freedom to do something, freedom to do anything and the freedom to do nothing. It's also important to keep in mind this quote from R. Paul Stevens -- "Sabbath is a divine requirement, leisure is a divine permission." Physical, emotional and spiritual rejuvenation is essential for everyone. But the Scripture instructs there is plenty of room to fit leisure in as well. Genesis 13:8-18. God bless.
Judy, thanks for enjoying it. We like to think that we'll be helpful, but there's always room for us to draw joy and wisdom from what we do as well as our daily bread.
I'm intrigued by your Genesis quote, I'd not have read it the way you do, I saw that about peace between people. Anyhow, blessings to you too, and both prosperity and joy, each in their portion.
DR